The Process

How divorce mediation works

A structured, efficient path from conflict to resolution.

01

Initial Consultation

We discuss your goals, the basic facts of the case, and whether mediation is appropriate for your situation. This is an opportunity to ask questions and understand what to expect from the process.

02

Information Gathering

The parties exchange the information needed to have productive negotiations, including financial information when relevant. This ensures both parties have the facts necessary to make informed decisions.

03

Mediation Sessions

We work through the issues in a structured setting, identifying points of agreement and narrowing or resolving disputed topics. Sessions are focused and goal-oriented.

04

Settlement Drafting

Once terms are reached, the agreement is reduced to writing. This creates a clear, comprehensive document that captures everything the parties have agreed upon.

05

Finalization

The paperwork is prepared for filing so the divorce can move toward judgment. This includes all necessary court documents to complete the legal process.

Resolution without warfare

The mediation process can often be completed far more efficiently than contested litigation. Every case is different, but the central goal remains the same: a clear, fair, and informed resolution without unnecessary warfare.

Months

Not years in court

Private

Not public record

Yours

Not a judge's decision

In Session

What to expect

Mediation sessions are structured conversations, not open-ended debates. The mediator guides the discussion, keeps it productive, and helps both parties focus on resolution rather than rehashing grievances.

  • Sessions typically last 2-3 hours
  • Both parties participate in each session
  • The mediator remains neutral throughout
  • Progress is documented after each meeting
  • Available in-person or via secure video

Coming Prepared

The most successful mediations involve parties who come prepared with relevant information and a genuine willingness to work toward agreement. This doesn't mean you need to agree on everything from the start—that's what mediation is for—but it does mean approaching the process in good faith.

The Role of Outside Counsel

While the mediator remains neutral, parties may choose to consult with their own attorneys for independent legal advice. This is entirely optional but can be helpful for complex matters or when parties want additional guidance on specific issues.

Start the process

Schedule your initial consultation to discuss your situation and determine if mediation is right for you.